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Why Bridget Jones was right!

Do you remember that punch up between Daniel Cleaver (aka Hugh Grant) and Mr Darcy (aka Colin Firth)  in Bridget Jones’s Diary?   The first film, so think back.  The one where they rumbled from the street into the...

I pooped my pants & faced my shame

One of the most embarrassing moments of my life was when I was in kindergarten.  I must have been only about four or five-years-old.   We were lining up to go out to the playground at lunch time and I was desperate to go...

If I had a tattoo, what would it be?

I had one of those endless nights last night where I just couldn’t sleep.  By 2am my mind wandered into the bizarre and wondered: If I got a tattoo, what tattoo would that be? Let me clarify this in the clear light...

Why I say yes to everything!

I say yes to everything!   You want to know why? I was once producing a television series on conspiracy theories.  A colleague came to me and said I should consider a comedy writer, Danny Wallace as the presenter.    He...

You only get what you think you’re worth

When I was in an abusive relationship, I wondered how the hell I had got there.   I’d had no experience of this before in my family or with previous boyfriends.  My childhood was a privileged and happy one.     ‘It must...

How do I know I’m in an abusive relationship?

I was young when I was completely swept off my feet by a manipulative, narcissistic man.   I was also naïve. The relationship was intoxicating at first.  The sexual chemistry pulled me to him with such force it was excit...

I’m a bad mother!

I’m a bad mother!  And I can’t ever forget it.   I had that dream again last night.  The one where I’ve left my toddler at Kindy. I’ve forgotten to pick him up and no matter how hard I try I can...

Morgan (aka God) isn’t to blame.

When I was in the throes of a destructive relationship my life was unmanageable and out of control.    The more unmanageable it got, the more I tried to control it.  I was exhausted.  I couldn’t see a way out.  I was a b...

I know what heroin is like

I know what being addicted to & withdrawing from heroin must be like.   It’s the same as being in and leaving an abusive relationship. The first time I laid eyes on my Ex it was as if he had sucked all the energy fro...


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