How to know if you’re in an abusive relationship. The tactics narcissists use to manipulate you.

How to know if your relationship is good enough for you.
When it’s time to leave and if so, how.

Let me tell you what Victim to Survivor is all about...

How to become an empowered survivor and start
walking towards living the life you love

You will finally...have a powerful process to guide you how to:

• Know if you’re in an abusive relationship
• Understand if loving them has become an unhealthy addiction for you
• Learn the tactics narcissists use and how not to be manipulated
• Decide if the relationship’s good enough for you or if it’s time to leave

The same journey I went through and changed my life with. Imagine going from fearful victim to empowered survivor like I did. Now you can!

IS THIS COURSE FOR YOU?

  • Are you unsure if you’re in an abusive relationship?
  • Are you confused by mixed signals your partner is giving you: one minute they love you, the next hurt you?
  • Are you being manipulated by a narcissist?
  • Are you always told you are to blame for their bad behaviour?
  • Are you changing your behaviour, to avoid their anger?
  • Is your head saying run, but your heart begging you to stay?
  • Are you fearful of them, yet afraid of losing them at the same time?  ✓
  • Do you find it hard not to put them and their needs above your own, even after they’ve treated you badly?
  • Do you feel sorry for them, responsible for them, or guilty at the thought of leaving them?
  • Are you feeling trapped, with no way out?
  • Are you feeling powerless, as though you are controlling the uncontrollable?
  • Are you missing the old you and want your power back?

HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL GET IN
START WITH ME: VICTIM TO SURVIVOR

- Four Training Modules -

Module One: Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

How do you know you are in an abusive relationship, even if there’s no violence? We will cover how to determine if this relationship is right for you. Common warning signs, patterns and behaviors that signify an unhealthy or abusive relationship. Guidance on how to listen to your gut when things don’t feel right.

Module Two: Am I Addicted to Love?

We will examine how the cycle of abuse works. How they hook you into the destructive vortex. How the cycles of highs and lows lead to an unhealthy addiction to them and what’s known as co-dependency. We will cover what a narcissist is and the tactics narcissists use to manipulate and control you. You’ll come away with a better understanding of whether this is a healthy relationship

Module Three: Accepting Things I Can't Change

How to Start with Me. How to put your needs and wellbeing first. How to accept what you can’t change, change what you can and how to know the difference. How to step off the merry-go-round and not be walking on eggshells or taking the blame. Learn how to protect yourself from being manipulated or controlled. How to separate your head from your heart to see clearly through chaos and confusion. How to decide if this relationship is truly good enough for you.

Module Four: Assessing Danger, What's Next?

Assessing your level of danger. How to know if an emotionally abusive relationship may lead to violence. What are the signs that warn you this relationship could turn fatal and your life may be in danger? Is it time to leave and if so, how? I’ll also be laying down the foundation of your next steps towards freedom. Laying the groundwork for why it’s so important focus on you, whether you choose to leave the relationship or not.

Similar to the video at the top of this page, each Training Module in this course contains professionally produced, bite-sized Videos, easy-to-watch on mobile or your computer at any time, and at your own pace.

There are also Workbooks to support each module - all of which you can refer back to whenever you like!


- Support via a Private Facebook Group -

There is nothing like the power of community to get through something and stay strong when the going gets tough.

The Facebook group for this course (optional to join) is set to SECRET and you’ll be able to connect with others who are making the same journey as you. This is a very safe, non-judgemental space.

You’ll also be able to ask me questions here, to get extra support between the video training modules.

That said, this course is NOT just a Facebook Group, so you do not need to join the group to get the full benefits from this program. It's simply an option that many enjoy. 

We have a lot of compassion for what you are experiencing and look forward to supporting you with awareness, patience, and guidance through this time. 

- Lifetime Access as a Valued Alumni- 

Although the course itself runs for 4 weeks, I’m giving you Lifetime Access to the material so that you can come back to it over and over again, at any point in the future. 

You will also maintain access to the secret Facebook Group to stay connected to your new support system.

What Alumni are saying about Start With Me... 

Joanne

 Start With Me: Victim to Survivor student 

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Before doing this course I felt lost, confused, with lots of doubt. I needed some guidance and confirmation what I'm feeling is normal and there is a life after a long abusive relationship. The physical abuse is easy to forget, it's the verbal and emotional abuse that is much harder. Now I feel reassured. It’s taught me to keep believing and fighting for what is right. It's making me start to change my thinking on what I want for the future. It's changing old habits. I will be taking her next course.”

Sarah

 Start With Me: Victim to Survivor student 

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Before doing this course I was feeling lost and scared. Hearing Vivian’s experiences that there can be life afterwards, you can change this and build something better, has been really helpful for me. Somebody can tell you in theory that you’re doing really well and you’re going to get there but when you can see somebody has actually done that, it makes it a bit more real in your head. It’s straight-forward and very relatable. Being in the FB Group was great too. I had joined one before, but there was a victim mentality where they just blamed their exes. Whereas, this feels very positive and supportive and it’s focussed on you and listening to yourself. I’m looking forward to starting her next course."

WHY ME? BECAUSE I KNOW YOUR PAIN

MY STORY

I was barefoot, seven months pregnant and bleeding from the cuts on my legs where my ex had dragged me over broken glass. He did this after strangling me until I fell unconscious. I thought I was going to die that day.

When I finally found the courage to leave I was a young, single mother. I had to help myself. It took me years of heartache and hard work to understand why I was attracted to him, why I stayed after he turned violent. How to break the powerful drug-like pull back to him and not go straight into another abusive relationship. How to go from victim to survivor.

But I found the truth was within me. That knowledge changed my life. I went on to find success in my life, television career and long-term healthy love. You can too.

Don’t waste your energy trying to fix a narcissist or waiting and hoping an abusive person will change. Don't let another month or year go by without doing what you can to make SURE you are in a healthy relationship. Life’s too short.

I know for a fact that taking my Start with Me course will open your eyes to where you are now. And start laying the foundational awareness within you to help you create the life you want. Imagine going from fearful victim to empowered survivor!

Don't wait. Start Now. Start with Me. You deserve it.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

  • HOW MUCH TIME WILL THIS TAKE?
  • HOW LONG DO I HAVE ACCESS TO THE COURSE?​​​​
  • IS THIS A SAFE SPACE?
  • WHY WOULD I INVEST IN THIS COURSE WHEN I CAN ACCESS FREE RESOURCES ONLINE?
  • I'M CONCERNED ABOUT THE COST / I can't afford it
  • WHY HAS VIVIAN MCGRATH CREATED THIS COURSE NOW?

I get that you may not have the means to invest in this. However, I hope you are not using money as an excuse to avoid facing the truth about why your relationships aren’t working or good enough for you.

What is it costing you to stay where you are or not get the guidance you truly need at this point in your life?

Remember, this step is about you learning more and finding the answers you’ve been looking for. Being able to walk yourself through a series of carefully designed modules, with insightful questions, that will make sense of what’s happened to you and why. How you can change your circumstances for good and never look back. 

How much is your happiness worth? For the 4 weeks we'll be actively learning together, this investment equates to the cost of a latte every day... and that's not including lifetime access and friendships you'll make!

Life’s too short. You deserve to be happy, healthy and free.

START WITH YOU

Leaving an emotionally or physically abusive relationship is not the end, it’s just the beginning. In some ways it’s the most painful part.

• Are you wondering why it hurts so much?
• Why you feel more sorry for them than you?
• Why you feel compelled to go back to them?

It’s time to take you focus off them and the relationship and put it back to where it belongs. On healing YOU. Otherwise you’ll just keeping going back or into another dysfunctional relationship.

Breaking the cycle and the journey to recovery begins with a single step. That first step was all it took for me to change my life.

By choosing to enroll in this course, you declare TODAY
as the day you start to take control of your destiny. 

Imagine your happiness no longer depending on others. No longer choosing partners who are no good for you.Being free from the pain of unhealthy relationships and finding the happiness you long for and deserve. This all begins with a single choice to start.

Register Now & You'll Also Receive This 
Special Bonus!

"Avoid these dating mistakes! 
10 Warnings I'd Give my Younger Self" 

This is a beautifully designed 45-page eBook in which I share the wisdom I wish I had when I was young! 

  • Signs to look for
  • Questions to ask yourself
  • Guidance to find your own inner strength
  • Frameworks to help you identify when something is NOT right
  • Insights to give you confidence and clarity  

Ready to Register for
Start With Me: Victim to Survivor?

Let's recap what you'll receive when you join
Victim to Survivor...

  • Start with Me: Victim to Survivor Video Course (Valued at $1099)
  • "10 Warnings I'd Give my Younger Self" eBook (Valued at $27) 
  • Workbooks: to guide you through each module (Valued at $56)
  • Personalized Support: over 4-weeks via a Private Facebook Group (Valued at $800+)
  • Lifetime Access to all of the above as a Valued Alumni (Priceless)

- SUPER LOW PRICE -

A high quality 4-week online course with this level of support 
is valued at:

 $1,982 

 
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Staying Strong, step-by-step with support...

Linn

 Start With Me: Victim to Survivor student 

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Vivian took me through step-by-step which was more coherent than me flying around the internet and getting bits and pieces of knowledge. It was written in a nice, coherent fashion. What helped me the most is knowing that other people are going through the same thing. Hearing Vivian’s experiences and knowing that there can be life afterwards, you can change this and move on. There’s so few people I can tell about this, without sounding crazy. Vivian listened to me in the FB Group. Her responses and that of others doing the course alongside me, were validating for me. I’m looking forward to the next course!”

Maria

 Start With Me: Victim to Survivor student 

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Vivian has created a warm and safe place. She is inspiring and her attitude is an example for me. I’ve done other online courses, it was different to those. It was almost like a book, with a lot of knowledge. She was very supportive in the FB Group too. I could easily identify with her as she’s been through it and the way she talks is very good for me. How she sees things and has recovered from it. It gives me hope that one day I’ll be able to be in a healthy relationship too. That it all starts with my relationship with myself. I really liked it a lot, Vivian. Thank you very much for this course!”

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