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When pain is good

Leaving a violent man and a dysfunctional relationship is only the first step. There is a long way to go once you’ve left an abusive relationship. I left chaos and drama and was now on my own.  I went through a gamut of...

I hated my husband

I’m in a long-term relationship.  I have the most brilliant husband.  He’s my best friend.  I could never imagine not being in love with him, until that day when I thought I wasn’t.   And boy did this s...

A guy who cut off his own arm changed my life

I once sent a text to my sister, when I was at one of my lowest points in life.  She kept it.  She told me: ‘One day I am going to show this to you again.  To show you how far you will have come, when you have foun...

I faked It & no-one found out

I have been lucky to have a successful career to date.  In fact, I’ve had three careers.   First as an Actress in  theatre and on television. Second, as a news & Current Affairs Reporter, then Foreign Correspondent....

We ask our kids the same 3 questions every night

Source: We Ask Our Kids The Same 3 Questions Every Night | Huffington Post This couple asks their children three questions every day: How were you brave today?  How were you kind?  How did you fail?  What a beautiful, si...

Foxy Knoxy

We all came to know her as ‘Foxy Knoxy’ from the lurid headlines that spewed out daily, in the media frenzy that surrounded her.   Amanda Knox was a temptress, a she-devil and accused in 2007 of murdering her flat mate M...

Why fear is your friend

Every ten years or so I have changed my career.   I must have a low threshold for boredom, as I start getting itchy feet.   I first wanted to be an Actor, I wanted to be ‘famous’.    I started as an Extra, th...

Why narcissists don’t love you

A narcissist who is abusive – whether emotionally or physcially – doesn’t love you.  They just need control.    And that need for control can turn into a cycle of violence. When an Abuser is violent they have absolute co...


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