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Narcissist abuse. Am I to blame for it?

Narcissistic abuse.  Am I to blame for it?   I’ve talked a lot about the fact that when you leave a relationship which involves narcissistic abuse, you have to take a long, hard look at yourself. To understand why the ty...

What happens when you leave an abusive relationship?

What happens when you leave an abusive relationship? For so long we’ve wanted the emotional rollercoaster of an abusive relationship to end.  When it does we’re euphoric at first. I no longer had to walk on eggshel...

Why do I keep going back to my abusive partner?

Why we keep going back to abusive relationships. To the person who hurts us. The cycle of abuse is so pervasive we develop an unhealthy addiction for the person who is hurting us.  We’re hooked in by the intensity at whi...

Facing inner shame and why you need to

Do you love someone who keeps hurting you?  Do you keep going back to someone who abuses you, emotionally and/or physically? Unless you look hard at why you were addicted to an emotionally unavailable person in the first...

I know what Narcissists’ Kryptonite is!

When you’ve grown up to think you’re not good enough confrontation is terrifying for you. Especially, if you were a people pleaser like me and morph into whatever shape you feel will get you the most approval. It’s no wo...